Liquid Romance

DT Tarkus by DT Tarkus February 3rd, 2012

A funny anecdote on secrets to a happy relationship has been circulating the internet last couple of months. Led me to ponder how much alcohol plays a role in romance. Wine at a dinner date, wedding toasts, anniversaries, or just a quiet night to rekindle a spark after the kids are down for the night. Certainly not everyone subscribes to it, but it does seem to show up a lot.

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No Assembly Required Christmas

DT Tarkus by DT Tarkus December 21st, 2011

Nothing sparks fear in fathers than to assemble gifts, in stealth, usually the night before Christmas.  Over the years, we’ve modified the exchange of gifts concept.  As one of seven siblings, eight aunts and uncles, double the number in cousins, a growing bevy of in-laws, one could go bankrupt.  We’re supposed to be merry, not morose over bandaged fingers and impending debt.  We make exceptions for young ones of course, but for anyone over eighteen, Santa’s workshop is closed.

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Connections

DT Tarkus by DT Tarkus December 16th, 2011

Awfully quiet this year. Kids have flown the coop, no plans to visit as they have plans of their own.  Wife is down south helping aged parents.  I’ve grown so used to the noise of the holidays, I’m unprepared for sudden hush. It’s hard to get in the spirit.  Even the dog barking at a passing car is a welcome sound.

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A Lone Y in a Sea of XX’s

DT Tarkus by DT Tarkus December 7th, 2011

Being one of few male participants at a romance writer’s convention can be unnerving at best.  Add it to being my first writer’s conference of any genre, and the angst level goes to Defcon 3.

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The Eyes have it…or do they?

DT Tarkus by DT Tarkus October 24th, 2011

Need an excuse to find that critique partner for that bestseller you’re writing?   How many times have we avoided having someone else “review” our writing to catch those little faux pas’?  But I have spell check.  Sure you do. Don’t we all.

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